Emotional Health

If It Isn't Fun, It Isn't Success

Michael liked earning $280,000 a year. But everything else about his job stunk: the 90-hour weeks; the pressure; his boss. Yes, the pay was good. But as Michael said, "It takes a big chunk of cheese to keep a rat running this maze day after day."

Occasionally he thought about quitting - just walking away. Then he would remind himself of all his responsibilities. The lease on his Manhattan apartment. The payments on his Jaguar. The monthly service on his six platinum credit cards - they constantly stayed near the max.

Even his therapist was a necessary expense. Dr. Eck was the only thing keeping him sane.

Then one day, his accountant jokingly remarked how lucky he was that Michael was not an artist. If Michael were just a painter, his expenses would drop nearly to zero, and he wouldn't need an accountant.

A few bucks for paints, canvas, brushes and turps - a bicycle for transportation - maybe a loft somewhere in Jersey. Even clothes from a recycle shop.....Read more »

Getting to Joy

AXIOM 1: The kind of thoughts that fill your mind will create the same kind of events to fill your life.

AXIOM 2: Joy feels good, and it's safe.

Those two items are all the theory we're going to need for this lesson. The remaining 1,667 words will be how-to.

Ralph Waldo Emerson said: "Man is what he thinks about all day long."

And best-selling author Dr. Joseph Murphy, in his landmark book "The Power of Your Subconscious Mind," wrote:

"Whatever thoughts, beliefs, opinions, theories, or dogmas you write, engrave, or impress on your subconscious mind, you will experience them as the objective manifestation of circumstances, conditions, and events. What you write on the inside, you will experience on the outside."

Teachers continually remind us that we should think about what we want. They tell us that if we spend our time fixated on what we don't want, or what we're afraid of, we'll get more of the bad stuff and less of the good.....Read more »

5 Important Tips for Anxiety Relief

Written by John Stark

Worry and anxiety self-help tip #1: Accept uncertainty

The inability to tolerate uncertainty plays a huge role in anxiety and worry. Chronic worriers can’t stand doubt or unpredictability. They need to know with 100 percent certainty what’s going to happen. Worrying is seen as a way to predict what the future has in store, a way to prevent unpleasant surprises and control the outcome. The problem is, it doesn’t work.

Thinking about all the things that could go wrong doesn’t make life any more predictable. You may feel safer when you’re worrying, but it’s just an illusion. Focusing on worst-case scenarios won’t keep bad things from happening. It will only keep you from enjoying the good things you have in the present. So if you want to stop worrying, start by tackling your need for certainty and immediate answers.

Challenging intolerance of uncertainty: The key to anxiety relief....Read more »

How to Easily Overcome Your Fears in less than 10 minutes

Written by Noelynn Jones

Lets clarify what I mean by fears. One dictionary definition states 'be afraid or feel anxious or apprehensive about a possible or probable situation or event; "I fear she might get aggressive".'

It's a combination of a feeling and thought that you have about an unknown situation based on your belief or preconceptions of what might happen in the future. It can be based on a previous bad experience or from listening to others.

In some situations the feeling of fear that you get is an instinctive response to a threatening situation, your intuition telling you that something is not right and that you need to be wary or even remove yourself from the situation. Sometimes described as the fight or flight response. This is a positive use for fear as it protects you from harm.....Read more »

How to Change Any Feeling in 5 Simple Steps

A Quick Quiz for You!

Answer these questions:

  • Are you actually aware of what you are feeling right now?
  • Would you know how to change that feeling?
  • Would you know how to get rid of it?

So many of us seem to resist and fight our feelings without really being aware of what the feeling actually is and when we stop fighting, we can actually really learn how to be in control of how we feel in any given moment.

Do you find Mary Poppins Emotional? Someone Does…

I was speaking to a client of mine this week who was telling me that as a result of the work we had been doing together, she is much more in tune with herself, much more comfortable and has found that she is much more able to express her feelings openly. She even told me that she had actually cried when watching a documentary on television in the week.....Read more »

The Power of Authenticity

Written by Mike Robbins

How often do you not say or do something because you’re worried about how it’ll be perceived? For most of us, myself included, this happens all the time - more often than we’d like to admit.

We live in a culture that’s starving for authenticity. We want our leaders, our co-workers, our family members, our friends, and everyone else we interact with to tell us the truth and to be themselves. Most important, we want to have the personal freedom and confidence to say, do, and be who we really are, without worrying so much about how we appear to others and what they might think or say about us.....Read more »

Iron-Clad Confidence

"He just oozed confidence."

That's the way a long-time friend described Aristotle Onassis when he was just a teenager.

Some people are late bloomers. They don't gain much real confidence till they are well into adulthood.

But there are also early bloomers - Onassis was one.

During World War One, his father was arrested by the German occupation forces, and it was young Aristotle who went to the German commandant and negotiated a bribe for the release of his father.

But his father, once released, continually criticized his son for paying far too much money. So young Ari left home. He didn't just run across town to hide out in a friend's house, however.

No, he went all the way from Greece to South America... though only in his twenties. And made good.

So good, in fact, that he eventually became one of the richest, most powerful men on earth.

Now, we all know that money isn't everything. Life is a complex mix; it takes many different qualities to make up a human being.....Read more »

Hypnotherapy Can Overcome Anxiety And Stress So You Can Find Tranquility

More than ever before scientific investigations are attesting the fundamental role stress can play in triggering or aggravating various psychological and physical disorders. A cover story in a 1983 issue of Time Magazine labeled stress "The Epidemic of the Eighties." The article also mentioned that stress is our leading health issue. Indeed it is doubtless that today's world has become a lot more complicated and stressful over the last twenty-five years since that article was written.

Many surveys show that almost everybody perceives themselves as being under a great deal of stress. Authorities in the field estimate that around 75 to 90 percent of all visits to PCPs (Primary Care Physicians) are related to stress.

Most adults claim their stress is primarily due to their job. Stress levels have also grown in children and the senior population because of several reasons including: Peer pressures that often lead to everything from cigarette smoking to alcoholism and drug abuse; the wearing away of religion and family values; increased crime rates; threats to personal security; but also social isolation and loneliness.....Read more »

An NLP Technique For The Treatment Of Phobias

Written By Karen Hastings

If you have a phobia that impacts significantly on your life, that leads to you avoiding situations, feeling overwhelmed or highly anxious, then you may be interested in this article about an NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) technique. I have found this treatment technique, at my NLP and Hypnotherapy practice, Herts, very useful in helping people recover from intense and impairing phobias. It is also used to help people deal with memories from traumatic events.

What we know is that when someone has a phobia or has experienced a traumatic event which still bothers them in the present, they tend to regularly re-live or replay their phobia or trauma by seeing a picture and then getting all the bad feelings that go with that picture.....Read more »

EFT, The Secret To Abundance And Prosperity

Written by Eric Johnson

Emotional Freedom Technique, or EFT, is a method of energy healing used to balance the body’s energy by removing negative emotions to increase energy flow. EFT practitioners gently tap on a person’s acupuncture points while guiding their focus to a limiting belief and it’s resolution, thus removing energy blockages on your road to abundance and prosperity.

EFT is a gentle and refined process that allows a person to remove limiting beliefs that are of no good use and reveal the underlying abundant true self. You can use EFT on yourself or have an EFT practitioner guide you through the process.

EFT involves tapping traditional acupuncture points on your body called meridians, usually with the first two fingers of your dominant hand. While tapping along the meridian points you make a statement of self love and acceptance despite your particular limiting issue. This is the “setup”:....Read more »

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