How To Stop Negative People Ruining Your Positive Attitude

Written by Eric Amidi

Mastering positivity is the single most important skill in manifesting your desires.

I say "Mastering", because it can get tough at times, specially when people around you and some even close to you are not positive.

I will also show a trick that you can use to turn the table on negativity in yourself and others, and transform it into positivity.

I will also explain why it works.

But, before I do that, I want to point out another subtle and veiled problem in the question.

And that is the FEAR of negativity!

Negativity is an obstacle, but you should not fear it in yourself and others around you, or you will attract more of it.

Detect it, masterfully neutralize it, and turn it into positivity but don't fight it.

Because fearing it and fighting it sends a message to your subconscious mind that negativity is too powerful and can ruin everything.

But even though we know logically that negativity is an obstacle, you don't want to impress your subconscious mind with that, do you?

When you master positivity in yourself, negativity of others will not bother you.

In fact, you become such a glowing light of positivity that the little mosquitoes of negativity get zapped before they can get too close...

So what's the trick to neutralize negativity and turn it into positivity?

As they say in Martial Arts: "Leverage your opponent's weight against him."

So here's a Mental Jujitsu against negativity.

When someone is being negative, he or she is focusing on a problem or a perceived problem without focusing on the solution.

With one simple but magical question you can stomp the negativity and turn it into positivity.

But, you must make sure that you ask this question with sincerity and not as an argument or sarcasm.

Here's the question you ask anyone who is being negative.

"What would you recommend we should do to solve the problem?"

Ask this with SINCERITY and genuine interest in solving the problem, and you will be surprised how powerful this simple question is.

It will immediately steal the power and focus from negativity and use it for positivity and solution.

Often times, you get a pause in response... That's the sign of negative thoughts being stomped and trying to shift gear to positive.

You can also use this question to zap the negativity in yourself.

We all have moments that negative thoughts take over. When you catch yourself being negative, ask yourself the same.

and you will be surprised how EFFECTIVE that little sentence is.

Ask "What should I do to solve the problem?"

That simple question returns the power to you.

And it puts you in control as opposed to you being a victim.

I wish you happiness and success in every aspect of your life,

- Dr. Eric, The Secret Behind The Secret

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